No pictures for this trip....it had a feeling of sadness to it. As much as I love this work, my heart is ready to go back to Westbrook and to continue my work with the wonderful people I have the pleasure to work with. This visit triggered many memories of where I started my teaching career and commitment to students with disabilities (Brunswick..1975!)
As I have driven up and down Rte 1 since my start in Brunswick, I often think about a particular student, Lori ,who lived right on the Brunswick/West Bath town line along the New Meadows River. Lori had a degenerative condition that put her in a wheelchair while she was in my classroom. Watching her older sister, Rosie, with the same condition deteriorate in front of her eyes, Lori and I spent much time talking about life as she struggled with coming to terms with what was to happen to her.
On my last morning in Union #47, with some free time on my hands, I decided to do what I had entertained for years....to see if Lori's family still lived on the New Meadows.
Amazingly I knew it as soon as I passed it and quickly turned around and headed down the long driveway. I couldn't help but think, what a crazy thing this was to do.......30+years later, who knew whose house I was intruding upon, but something told me it was the right thing to do.
The ramp was still on the house to accommodate the wheelchair access. An unfamiliar man answered the door and when I explained that I was looking for Lori's mom, a petite woman peeked around the corner. Tears came to my eyes as I explained who I was, and Lori's mom reached out for a hug as she responded, "Of course I remember you!" Lo and behold, the man who answered the door was a beloved school bus driver who was now suffering with emphysema, who also remembered me! The 3 of us chatted, reminisced, shared memories and pictures as we discussed vignettes from the past. Roy(the bus driver) was excited to hear that I have been married to Alan, a passenger on his bus many years ago!
Lori passed away a couple of years ago. I was able to catch up with her life activities after I knew her, and most importantly was able to share with her mother what a profound impact she had on me as I started my career in education. After hugs all around, I headed back to business in West Bath.




Turning onto Main Street, it quickly appears that things haven't changed a lot since the last time I was in Calais 6 years ago....many empty storefronts and builidngs. Apparently the population has dropped by about 50% in the last couple of decades.....


Eagles roost on the pilings.



Leaving at the end of the day, I was promised a visit to the reservations if I return next year----if I can be so lucky!




to the left.....

